Colin's Blog
[vimeo 134122112] The more technology shrinks and connects our world, the more we are confronted with challenges that we have to deal with, almost on a daily basis. As I watch it all unfold, I will be inspired from time to time, to focus attention on and share with you how my Radical Living Strategies can help all of us meet our challenges with greater ease and compassion. My hope is that these offerings give you the insight you need to create the peaceful, fulfilling life you desire.
What is happening in Egypt right now, not to mention the violence going on in Syria, Iraq and Northern Ireland, to name just a few examples of religion-inspired violence is extremely distressing and brings up feelings of helplessness and despair in those of us watching from the sidelines.
What can we do to help? Well, . . .
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Time and healing are directly related. For us to evolve to the extent that we can heal ourselves, we must have most of our consciousness in present time – not in the past or the future, but in the now.
Radical Forgiveness helps us be in present time because we do . . .
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From a very early age, we learned to blame others for everything unpleasant that occurred. While blaming is a great strategy for creating separation in relationship, it is nothing compared to the mechanics of projection.
Blaming is done consciously and with awareness; projection is an entirely unconscious activity generated from deep down in our unconscious . . .
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Some relationships are beyond saving. They are best let go. Others that are teetering on the edge of breakdown can be saved if the relationship can be re-negotiated on better terms. I have explained how to renegotiate a relationship in my book, Expanding Into Love. The assumption, as I explained is last week’s . . .
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Partnership is all about commitment. When you come into partnership with someone, you do so on the basis of a number of agreements. Unfortunately, few are expressed or discussed; most of the agreements we base our partnerships on are implied or assumed. Is it any wonder, therefore, so many of us find ourselves in . . .
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Most of us are afraid of our anger, or would feel ashamed if we expressed it openly, so we suppress it and pretend we don’t have it. However, that is not healthy and we need to find a way to deal with what is a very normal emotion. There is nothing bad about anger. It . . .
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Last week I emphasized the need for us to feel our feelings and not deny them. This week I am outlining 10 strategies we use to avoid feelings and how to recognize them.
But initially at least, we need to recognize that such mechanisms protect us from emotional overwhelm and in that sense some of . . .
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Today is the day when Americans celebrate their independence as a nation. On this day, I would like to offer all the world’s citizens a different way to celebrate: Radical Transformation.
Of all the Radical Living Strategies we offer under that heading, the least understood and for that reason, probably the least used is Radical . . .
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I sometimes get criticized for expressing what some people consider as negative feelings and imply that such feelings are not consistent with Radical Forgiveness. In the video that follows, I address this issue head on. But first, let me say this to put it in context.
I believe that life on the planet is meant . . .
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Well, I’m not writing this from jail. The Cancer Act of 1939 in England, states that it is a crime, punishable by fines, confiscation of materials and jail time, to advertise or talk in public about any form of alternative treatments for cancer. Someone blew the whistle and threatened to close down the Alternative Treatment . . .
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